A lot of what Doctors and lawyers tell you is their opinion and not necessarily factual. As professionals we need to exercise our judgment based on our experience. Often what we say is not what you want to hear, but it is our job to tell it as we see it.
So, for example your doctor may tell you that after looking at the scans your cancer is inoperable and only palliative care is required. Or, the slipped disc in your back requires surgery that may result in you having to give up sport or work.
From the patient or client’s point of view sometimes this can be hard to comprehend and accept. So what can you do if you are not convinced by what your doctor has told you? You need to follow these steps:
- Ask the doctor to explain again. Step by step, and slowly. Are they absolutely certain that their view is correct? At this point your doctor will probably accept that there is a range of opinion but go on to explain why they think they are right.
- If you still feel unconvinced by their explanation ask them if they would object to you obtaining a second opinion. They are unlikely to disagree. Usually they will recommend one of their colleagues, or alternatively you may have your own idea of who to go to.
- If your treatment is under the NHS it is even possible to choose a doctor from outside the hospital you are being treated at. If that is the case you would need to contact them and make arrangements for a consultation. If you are paying privately then you would have to pay for the second opinion.
- When you see the new doctor after a discussion they will give you their own opinion. It may be the same as your original doctor or it may be different. If different you will need to talk about transferring your care to the new doctor.
It is important to understand that by asking for a second opinion you are not falling out with your doctor. They will not be offended at all. On the contrary they will probably encourage it as they will feel a lot more comfortable about your intended treatment if another doctor agrees with them.
Hilton Armstrong – June 2020